Love: Why so complicated?

One day we wake up and ITS GONE!

Believing in the magic of love is like taking risk. All of us believe that love is the most powerful and exciting feeling that one person could feel in his/her whole life. But as you experience the pain would you still believe that love is the happiest feeling?

It was everyone's dream to find someone who will love you the way you do or maybe more than you do, who will share with you the precious moments and who will not let you down when you are in the darkest phase of your life. But what will you do if the Love between you will disappear because of the existence of the word. BREAKING UP? 

I came up to this article about the Causes of breaking up. As a summary of that article, the common reasons why people break up are 

• Distrust
• It was stated in the article that " Healthy love affairs are built on trust. When you commit yourself to somebody, you are placing a large amount of trust in them. "I can say that trust is the most important ingredient to have a healthy relationship. Because being committed to your partner is like putting also yourself with him. And it also the most fragile because once it is destroy it is hard or maybe impossible to bring back the trust. And trust is may be caused by one single mistake which you maybe intend or not.
• Differences
• We do believe that everyone is unique. We have our own perspectives in life. But being committed is also accepting one's differences. But why do still it is the reason why people break up? it is because every person wants that there ideas will be heard or believe.And when there is someone opposing our believe we have this feeling of getting hurt or angry and it is the root of knowing that you have differences and will lead to misunderstanding. 
• Boredom
• We all expect to have a exciting and happy relationship. But when time comes that you became both busy and don't have a time for each other. It cause breaking up because you don't feel the company of each other. But if you really love someone its your obligation to understand him/her.
• Loss of love.
• This may be the ultimate and painful reason why couple broke up. The loss of love is something who is hard to accept but it is really existing. It always starts with the question WHY?. You may be do everything so that your partner will feel your love but still it happens that one day come he told you that I don'y love you anymore.

On my own experience. I do really believe that breaking up with someone you love if the most painful part of your life. And facing that causes is like wishing it was just a dream. But whatever we still It exist. I am also going through break up and still can't accept that trust and differences is the reason why it happen. But what can I do? It's GONE. But knowing that this reason exist. It helps me to understand why it happen and make me now know what will do next time.