Reasons why MEN broke up with Women

We all know that men are the one who starts the relationship. When they court you its the start of everything. But what if the man who starts everything will be the one to end it?We know that everything and everyone has a reason why it happen. And in this case let us look on the point of view of a man why he chooses to broke up with his woman.

I found this article of tbone64. The Top 10 Real Reasons Men Break Up With Women. This article shows all the reasons that men have in their mind before they broke up with their women. For me this are valid reasons because they have their own feelings and as what I noticed that reasons is not really about the love, but the actions that the woman did. Let me list down those reasons why men break up with women

1. Women don't listen. 

• "When a man says something, give him a chance to speak. Listen to what he says. " Tbone64 said. Women are really popular when it terms to talking. Women are very vocal to their feelings and most of all its very hard for women to listen to the reasons of men when they did something wrong.But we don't know that men or a human wants that there is someone who listens to them even if its good or bad.And when they feel that their opinion doesn't matter. That's when they decide to leave.

2. Women listen to their friends too much

• According also to the article, It was discuss that women listen too much with their friends. We know that women cannot hide secrets among themselves. There is always one person they open all the things in their mind.And of course there are friends who wants to know whats going on on their friends relationship. So when the man and the woman have a problem in their relationship, we expect that women will contact one of her friends or her friends to seek for advice and tell everything. And when time that women talk with her boyfriend, most of the words that he may say is from her friends words and his point of view in their situation is what her friends saw. In that case man will feel that women depend on others about there relationship and the privacy that a man has will not be given because of the friends around them. And because of that the man will end to decision of breaking up to avoid all the unnecessary issues among their relationship.

3. The relationship is NOT a family affair.

• It is a problem when a girl is very open to there relationship in her family. Its not bad that you are open to your family about the relationship you have with your boyfriend. But not all things should be told about your relationship especially when it is about the argument. Men don't like it because it is like that you are giving your family a bad impression to him.

4. We're not joined at the hip. 

• In this reason, It was said in the article that we have our own likes and dislikes. Girls wants that whenever they are their man should be there also, Its not bad but sometimes you have to understand that a man has there own friends and life. And if it is always the problem of the relationship especially with girls attitude, That's when the boy decided to broke up.

5. Is this a relationship or a prison sentence?

• Women are like police who always inspect what her boyfriend does or where he goes. Its a part of being a girlfriend but being to much is another issue. It was uneasy when someone is always checking what you do. Its like that the trust was not there, We all know that It is maybe about the care or love but being too much feels like imprisoned.

6. Independence is great—to a point.

• In this generation, Women wants a equal treatment with the men. They believe that what men can do they can also. But we know that a man's responsibility is to protect their woman. It was there job to secure his girl and it shows his care.But when there are times that you always say that "I'm ok," "Don't worry I can do it alone." The ego of the man was really affected. And when that happens. It will come to their mind that why will he still stays when you can do everything without him.

7. Being too dependent is not a good thing, either.

• It makes me confuse about the number 6 and 7 reason. What I understand is Man wants to feel that they are need by woman but still they want a woman who has there own decision.In other words they want a grown up women who can stand with her own but not too independent.

8. Don't you ever have anything nice to say?

• It is reason when men break up with women when they feel that their women don;t support her in everything he does.It maybe look like your treating him a child but men want you to be proud of him. And when he can't found it to you. He will decide to broke up with you and find another to fulfill want he want.

9. There's no future in the past.

• We all know that all of us can do mistake but always bringing and talking it back again is like making your problems unending issue and it is so irritating of always talking that things that should have left in the past. When your boyfriend make mistake before is should be done and not bring back anymore because always making him feel that he did that it makes him think to leave.

10. Maybe his friends won't be your friends, but don't dog them out, either.

• Most of relationships problem is about the friends. When your boyfriend did something that you don't want, sometimes the one you blame is his friends and that makes your relationship more complicated because you are trying to put other people on your relationship.Always remember that before you came he has his own life and his own friends. 

In this topic what I can say is Men has there own feelings. As a human they have to decide what is good for them. They have also the right to take care of there own feelings. I've also learned that as a women we also have to take care of the man's feeling. Its not an obligation but its our responsibility to understand what others feel.