Teenage Break up: What are the effects

Entering in a relationship is a serious matter. It takes two people who have the capacity and knowledge in entering in a relationship, or people that in the right age o decide for that serious matter. But in today's generation, many teenagers enter in a relationship.It maybe because of technology or influence of friends. And those teenagers experience many situations when they are in a relationship. But what will happen if a teenager experience break up?What are the effects of it?

I was found this article about The Effects of Teenage Break Up by Jae Ireland. In this article, It discuss the different effects of break up that teenagers experience. It discuss the reactions and the feelings that a teenager feels in that stage. The effects that was stated in the following are follows:

PHYSICAL SIGNS

  -According to Jae "Your teen may not be able to eat immediately following a breakup and may deal with the breakup in other physical ways."

Breaking up will affect the physical activities of a teenager. Maybe because of loneliness and feeling of alone because when they are in a relationship part of their physical activities was done with here girlfriend/boyfriend, maybe those physical activities reminds him/her the memories. But not all are like that, because of break up they change their physical  appearance better than before.

For girls, The physical change that they do is at first they will change their look or may be change her hair or by taking care of their physical appearance the way they did before.For Boys, They may go harder to gym.

WITHDRAWAL FROM ACTIVITIES

Some teens will withdraw for there activity that they did before especially when it reminds them about the break up, and because of that not only the memories they will what to escape but they will miss all the activities that they supposed to do with their friends.

EMBARRASSMENT

According to the article "If your teen has suffered an especially public breakup, he may feel embarrassed about the situation and not want to go to school or socialize with friends who know about it. You'll need to watch this embarrassment carefully, as it may cause him to become more introverted and not want to talk about the situation, which means you'll have a harder time deciphering what he is thinking and feeling following the breakup."

When a teen suffers from a public break up, it affects his/her social life.When someone is looking to him with his notice,he will think that they are talking about what happen to him. So the teen will be careful and avoid talking about what happen because he/she is suffering from the traumatic break up.

DEPRESSION

Depression is the combination of all the negative effects, not eating, sleeping,withdrawal from activities and many more. In this kind of effects, in will give bad outcome or effects.So a teenager suffering from it should bring to the experts like psychologist or doctors for the faster recovery of Him/Her by consultations.

SOLIDIFIED RELATIONSHIPS

 Not all break up has a negative effect, Sometimes break up will solidified relationship. Because of loneliness and you need someone to talk to. You say what you feel to your friends or or family because of your trust.And that situation, you will feel okay and comfortable to the ones you talked to,

Breaking up has its good and bad effects especially to teenagers who are young for that experience. But in the end, Break up should be a good effect to someone, because it will make you strong and believe more that there is really someone destined for you because God is removing someone in your life for you to find the right one.